Paying it Forward

Dao is a first-year student majoring in Pharmacy at the HCMC University of Pharmacy and Medicine. Growing up seeing her mom and the people in her village, often taking medicine without caring or thinking about medicine’s side effects, encouraged Dao to study Pharmacy. She hopes that she could work with other researchers to develop a new drug with no side effects. Dao wants to work part-time at a pharmacy to learn and gain more experience. Dao’s favorite subject is Chemistry. She finds the application of chemistry in everyday life and industry fascinating and practical.

Dao’s father is a veteran, but her parents got divorced when she was little. Dao lives with her mother in a small house that does not belong to them. Her mother works as a wage earner with an income of $100 per month to support Dao and pay for living expenses.

Dao remembers when she was six, her mom worked all the time, and the family did not have any food to eat, so an elderly neighbor always gave Dao food to eat. Her act of kindness left a lasting lesson on how to give without expecting anything in return. The neighbor became Dao’s first teacher and inspired her to help others and pass on the message of “pay it forward.”

Pacific Links Foundation

Building Confidence

Over the past two weeks, I have been studying at Camp and saw a lot of improvement. I am especially motivated to write letters in English, which I did not do too often in the past because I was afraid of making mistakes. I also used to be scared of speaking English to my friends. However, after being in a welcoming and non-judgmental environment where the teachers only spoke English, I now feel more comfortable listening to and speaking English. I am not as shy as before. I promise to continue learning English and spend 30 minutes each day on the LMS learning management system (LMS). I will try to learn more vocabulary, grammar, and practice speaking every day to improve my English.

English Camp Participant

Coffee Dreams

Dat’s parents separated very early, his mother raised him by herself in a very small house with no door and barely enough space to sleep and cook. The house is too small that his bicycle must be left outside in the alley.

His mom supports them through her small roadside coffee shop. In 7th grade, he learned that his family could no longer afford his schooling so he decided to quit school. He shared with us: “Seeing my mom work so hard every day but we still don’t have enough money to cover the tuition fee, I want to quit school and do something to help her.”

Dat really likes reading books, especially those related to psychology and human development. He proactively learns English, interpersonal skills from reading books and working. At the place he used to work, his supervisor and the team leader really appreciated his good work ethic. He is hardworking, responsible, and open to learning new things.

He also shared with us that his hobby and dream was to have his own coffee shop where people can come to truly enjoy the coffee. He also told us about how much he wanted to go to Dalat to visit the coffee farms to learn about how they grow, take care of, process and preserve the coffee beans before transporting them to other places to sell.

Currently, Dat is learning the art of coffee. Dat received a scholarship to attend a bartender training program to increase his employment opportunities and help him get closer to his dream.

We believe that as a hardworking and passionate person, Dat will go far in his life and we are proud of supporting his dream.

Pacific Links Foundation

Flying Colors

I’ve written periodically about this young woman, one of our trafficking survivors at our shelter in Lao Cai Province. She is a very smart and determined young woman. Her story is full of tragedy, though unfortunately not atypical. A member of an ethnic minority group near the Chinese border, at age 16 she was tricked by her friend and sold to a couple in China who bought her for their son. Soon after she gave birth to a daughter, they sold her to work as forced labor in a coat factory.

The opportunity to escape finally came when she was left alone, but she had to make the agonizing, split-second decision to leave her daughter behind, as the mother-in-law kept her at all times. Upon escaping, she also rescued the neighbor girl who was in a similar situation. Eventually, they were brought to our shelter, where they could live in a safe environment and receive education, art therapy, healthcare, life skills, and most importantly, love. I met her two weeks after she arrived, and was skeptical when she said her dream was to become a doctor. We were unsure of the quality of her education before she was trafficked, and she was already at least two years behind in school. Frankly, I underestimated her; last year she was the top science and math student in her class. We were so nervous when she took her university entrance exams, but I’m happy to report that she passed with flying colors!! Together with our donors and Lao Cai government partners, we provided the opportunities and support, but ultimately she did this herself. She’s currently in university studying pharmacology, making her way towards becoming a doctor! She is driven by her passion for medicine and a desire to help others, and I don’t doubt that she’ll continue to succeed.

Mimi Vu

Co-Founder Diep N. Vuong Awarded Prestigious Henley & Partners Global Citizen Award

Congrats to our president, Diep Vuong, on winning THE HENLEY & PARTNERS GLOBAL CITIZEN AWARD!

From Diep, “Human trafficking is the major issue of our time, representing the ugly side of globalization. It is all-pervasive and yet largely ignored. It means a great deal to my team and me to have this acknowledgment from a global firm such as Henley & Partners, and we hope that this year’s award will help drive widespread awareness about the work that we are doing on the ground with our partners. The more we recognize the painful realities of our world, the more effective we can be in addressing and correcting them. Human trafficking has become a global epidemic, yet the people who abhor it and want it to end far outnumber those perpetuating it. Let us find each other and work together to turn the tide.”

See press release

Perseverance

I’m currently going to school [studying Business English at a college in Ho Chi Minh City] and working. At first, when I came to Ho Chi Minh City, I did not know anyone, so I had to figure out what kind of part-time jobs I qualified for and how much they paid. I have learned a lot from working and found that Pacific Links Foundation has taught me many things that I find very useful now which I found unrealistic when I was in high school. I could not imagine that life in Ho Chi Minh City could be so hard; my sister had to sell her wedding ring to give me 8 million VND to pay for my school fees and housing. There was a time when I did not call home because I did not want my parents to send money (by borrowing it from someone or selling things). After finishing high school, my mother asked me to find work near home, but I wanted to go to school. I want to prove to my mother that I chose the right path and I believe that I can do it.

My family’s economic circumstances are more difficult than before. My mother suffers from arthritis and her legs ache every time she walks a lot so she could no longer sell things two times a day as before. My mother’s legs hurt so much that each month she goes to the hospital, which costs 1,500,000 VND per month. She continues to sell sandwiches in the morning to earn money, which my family depends on, about 70,000 VND each day. There were many months when my mother refused to go to the hospital because she was afraid of the cost. I would like to thank you for the support I have received in the past 5 years to help me continue to go to school.

Academic Scholarship Recipient

Naivety

I have a friend who was a trafficking victim. Previously, she worked in an unstable, low-paying job in an industrial zone near Ho Chi Minh City. Someone told her that if she went to China, she could get a more stable and better-paying job. She was young and naïve so when a friend introduced her to an opportunity, she took it. She was tricked and taken to Hainan Island, sold by the friend as a bride to a family. Her husband was deaf and disabled; he also had a mental illness and usually disappeared at night. Her mother-in-law treated her badly and often beat her.

She gave birth to a girl, who was killed by her husband’s ex-wife. This incident caused her to have a mental breakdown; she stripped off her clothes, ran away, and tried to escape but was captured by her husband and his family. After that, the friend who sold her contacted her and said s/he could help return her home.

She believed the friend, her life was already full of hardship. However, that friend once again sold her to another family in Guangzhou or somewhere else in Mainland China. There, she was sold again for a very low price – about 9 or 10 million VND. In this 3rd family, she got married and gave birth to a boy and a girl. After years, with the help of many people, she returned home and contacted her family.

Factory Manager

Better Future

I was a student in Pacific Links Foundation’s Academic Scholarships Program for 4 years.

Before I received the scholarship, I faced a lot of difficulties. My family was so poor. My father was the main breadwinner for my family. He had to work very hard to pay for my younger brother and me to continue going to school.

We lived with our grandparents and also took care of them. My grandma was sick so every month we had to buy medicine for her.

To share the burden, I would help my mother peel longans after school. We could earn 20,000 to 50,000 VND (~$1 to $2 USD) if we worked all day. That made my studies more difficult. But I never once thought that I should give up my studies because I believed that education was the only way I could get out of poverty.

The scholarship changed my life. Pacific Links Foundation helped pay for my studies and gave me the opportunity to attend Summer Camp. I learned so much at Summer Camp.

I learned how to protect myself from human trafficking. I practiced my public speaking, leadership, and teamwork skills. Through constant practice, I became more confident in myself.

Most importantly, I was able to pursue my dream. I am studying law at Saigon University. I would not be here today without the support of the Academic Scholarships Program.

Now I know I must try my best in my studies and take part in more activities at my school. I also hope to give back by volunteering at Summer Camp next year.

Finally, I want to give thanks to Pacific Links Foundation and the Academic Scholarships Program because they gave me a chance at a better life. I hope the program expands and prospers to give more girls the future they deserve through education.

Former Pacific Links Foundation’s Academic Scholarship Recipient

A Second Chance

Moua* met a Chinese man, Chang,* via Facebook. Two days later, he invited her to go to China to meet him. Chang arranged for a taxi to pick her up at home. When she got to Ban Vuoc, he asked a man to come to pick her up. She didn’t want to go with that man because she didn’t know him. She was then told that to go back home, she would need to pay 6 million VND (~$250 USD) for the taxi. She didn’t have the money, so she followed the man to China. That night, she met Chang who wanted her to become his wife but she didn’t agree. Chang then locked her up in the car for 2 days and gave her to another Chinese man. This man brought her to a building and confined her to the 2nd floor. When he wasn’t paying attention, she jumped down from the 2nd floor to escape and got injured. She then met an old man, who helped her get to the Chinese police station. Eventually, her father came to pick her up at the border gate. Moua is a resident of the Lao Cai Compassion House. She is receiving vocational training in sewing techniques at a tailor shop.

*Name changed for confidentiality

Kim Ngan Nguyen & Thanh Pham, Lao Cai Compassion House Staff

Scars

When I was 12 years old, I dropped out of school because my parents constantly fought, so each person went their separate way. I had to live with my foster mother, who lives far away. When I was nearly 14 years old, my friend’s acquaintance invited us to work far, so we followed this person who led us to the Hanoi bus station and assigned us to a middle-aged woman and said that this woman would take care of us.

This woman picked us up on a bus that led us very far. We passed many different vehicles, then we came to one big house (later I discovered that we had crossed over to China). She made us become prostitutes, and anyone who refused was beaten. We were imprisoned with over 20 other women who had also refused and were severely beaten.

Every time there was an opportunity for us to find a way to escape, we tried to take advantage of it. The third time we tried, however, the owners hacked off one girl’s head and made us stay in the room with the bloody corpse all night. After that incident, no one dared to try to escape anymore…

Every time we tried to escape, we got caught and were beaten, had cigarettes burned onto our skin, and were tattooed with the owner’s code on our hands.

I was a prostitute for almost a year before the Chinese police raided and dismantled the establishment, rescued us from prostitution, and repatriated us back home.

Currently, I am studying sewing, but my eyes are very poor and I often have headaches. Sometimes I experience moments of blindness and can’t see clearly, probably due to previous injuries sustained from the times I tried to escape and was hit on my head and eyes. Therefore, my intention now is to learn how to be a hairdresser and wash hair to lessen the use of my eyes and mathematical calculations.

This year, I’ll turn 16!

L., Trafficking Survivor in Resident at Pacific Links Foundation’s Lao Cai Compassion House, Translated by Pacific Links Foundation Team

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